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Landlord who turns up unannounced and let's himself in when I am not in.

Please can someone advise me. I've been told to call the police but I am convinced this will make relations between myself and the landlord very bad. I was previously in rent arrears, which I paid in full, and I now feel (and I think he also feels) that he can do whatever he wants. Not that this is something new, even before I was ever in arrears, he would turn up whenever. He let's himself in when I'm not here, I've come home to find him here (he leaves the door wide open for neighbours to see my possessions and possibly take whatever they like), I've come home to find dirty footprints all over my bathroom floor and mat, I recently came home to find he'd left the toilet seat up and moved some of my belongings. I feel so depressed about this. He has no respect for my privacy or security. I just feel so awful but I don't know what to do without making matters worse and I can't bear confrontation. I suffer with anxiety and depression and this isn't helping matters. I wish I could afford to move but I don't have deposit money plus I will never find anywhere as cheap, where it's all self-contained. 

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Please try this:

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When I was having long drawn out difficulties with the letting agent Paul Simon I phoned Shelter 3 times (for different problems) and they were great. You have to be patient waiting for them to answer as they are very busy but they do their best to help. As far as I know a landlord legally has to give 24hrs notice before entering the property. You should have your contract when you call Shelter as it will help them out. 

Change the lock!

Call the Tax Office.

Absolutely change the lock!! or add your own. Take photos of fingerprints or what's moved, record everything in a diary, get witnesses etc – just in case you might need it.

He has no right whatsoever to enter your home unless he gives you proper notice. This is usually set in writing in your rental agreement, so check what this says but, if it says nothing, it doesn't change the fact that he has no right to let himself in without your agreement (which you should not withhold unreasonably – ie if he needs access to repair stuff then you must agree to let him in... with a day or two's notice! unless there's an emergency like flooding etc).

You probably won't need to call the police if you make it clear to him that you do not want him in without your consent and presence. He already know this, but just abuses your ignorance about your rights. I've had landlords like that, they shy away once they see that you stand your ground and have sought legal advice. No need to be aggressive or threatening (even if you end up arguing) just put your foot down.

Shelter will advise. So should Haringey Council.

Why does he visit the property? Is it for maintenance or collecting rent? How often on average - weekly, monthly?

Is there also a gender issue here ? just wondered. If the guy does not live at the address he has no legal right to let himself in. Change the locks. Don't be bullied.

He's male, I'm female. He used to flirt with me and I know he cheats on his wife as I've heard him on the phone in our hallway discussing it. 

I couldn't afford to get the locks changed even if I wanted to and that would just make him absolutely livid. 

I have a spare latch key lock with keys if you want them. He might get angry but you'll be safe.

That is really really kind but I think he'd go crazy if I did that. :(

I would be very careful in asserting that he cheats on his wife. Unless you have solid evidence you risk a suit for slander.

Blimey this is getting intense !

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